I once got advice from the future.
Actually, a friend of mine asked me if 36 year old me had any advice that he would give to 26 year old me and I said sure.
He pressed and I said, first: don't ask the wife to participate in a three way, it'll anger her.
Second, she won't dig the back door action either, so don't go there.
Third, pretty much anything you'll suggest she'll shoot down, be thankful for what you get, take it and relish it just don't ask if you can put relish on it.
He got tired of that line of advice, and meant other things.
So then I said, I'd tell him to do the following: getting a teaching certificate, buy a helluva lot of Apple stock and lose 20 pounds and keep it off